feat(sql): swap mattn/sqlite with modernc.org/sqlite (#9343)

* feat(sql): swap mattn/sqlite with modernc.org/sqlite (#9325)

* feat(sql): swap mattn/sqlite with modernc.org/sqlite

* feat(sql): revert the dashboard testing changes

* feat(sql): enable WAL mode for sqlite

* feat(sql): revert enable WAL mode for sqlite

* feat(sql): use sensible defaults for busy_timeout

* feat(sql): add ldflags

* feat(sql): enable WAL mode for sqlite

* feat(sql): some fixes

* feat(sql): some fixes

* feat(sql): fix yarn lock and config defaults

* feat(sql): update the defaults in example.conf

* feat(sql): remove wal mode from integration tests

go.mod

@@ -32,7 +32,6 @@ require (
 	github.com/knadh/koanf v1.5.0
 	github.com/knadh/koanf/v2 v2.2.0
 	github.com/mailru/easyjson v0.7.7
-	github.com/mattn/go-sqlite3 v1.14.24
 	github.com/open-telemetry/opamp-go v0.19.0
 	github.com/open-telemetry/opentelemetry-collector-contrib/pkg/stanza v0.128.0
 	github.com/openfga/api/proto v0.0.0-20250909172242-b4b2a12f5c67
@@ -84,6 +83,7 @@ require (
 	gopkg.in/yaml.v2 v2.4.0
 	gopkg.in/yaml.v3 v3.0.1
 	k8s.io/apimachinery v0.34.0
+	modernc.org/sqlite v1.39.1
 )
 
 require (
@@ -93,10 +93,9 @@ require (
 	github.com/remyoudompheng/bigfft v0.0.0-20230129092748-24d4a6f8daec // indirect
 	github.com/uptrace/opentelemetry-go-extra/otelsql v0.3.2 // indirect
 	go.yaml.in/yaml/v2 v2.4.2 // indirect
-	modernc.org/libc v1.66.3 // indirect
+	modernc.org/libc v1.66.10 // indirect
 	modernc.org/mathutil v1.7.1 // indirect
 	modernc.org/memory v1.11.0 // indirect
-	modernc.org/sqlite v1.39.0 // indirect
 )
 
 require (
@@ -330,7 +329,7 @@ require (
 	go.uber.org/mock v0.6.0 // indirect
 	go.yaml.in/yaml/v3 v3.0.4 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/mod v0.27.0 // indirect
-	golang.org/x/sys v0.35.0 // indirect
+	golang.org/x/sys v0.36.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/time v0.11.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/tools v0.36.0 // indirect
 	gonum.org/v1/gonum v0.16.0 // indirect